When people sit down to think about estate planning, they almost always start with the will. It’s the document everyone has heard of, and it carries a kind of weight in our culture. But here’s something we often share with new clients: in many cases, a power of attorney is even more important than your will — because you’re much more likely to need it during your lifetime.
What a Power of Attorney Actually Does
A power of attorney is a legal document that allows you to name someone you trust to act on your behalf if you ever become unable to do so yourself. There are different types depending on what you’re trying to accomplish, but two are especially common in estate planning.
A financial power of attorney lets your chosen person handle financial matters — paying bills, managing accounts, dealing with insurance, working with the IRS, and similar tasks. A healthcare power of attorney allows them to make medical decisions on your behalf if you can’t communicate them yourself.
Both documents are designed to keep things moving in your life when you’re unable to keep them moving yourself.
What Happens Without One
People sometimes assume their spouse, adult child, or closest family member can simply step in and handle things if something happens to them. Unfortunately, that’s not how it works in most situations.
Without a valid power of attorney in place, your family often has to go to court to obtain legal authority — a process called guardianship or conservatorship. It’s slow. It’s expensive. It’s public. And it places ongoing oversight on people who simply want to help you. All of that is avoidable with a single document signed in advance.
Choose the Right Person
This is one of the most important decisions you’ll make. The person you name will have meaningful authority over your affairs during a time when you can’t supervise them. They should be someone you trust completely — not just to be honest, but to use good judgment, communicate well with others involved in your care, and act in your best interests even under pressure.
Many people choose a spouse, an adult child, or a trusted sibling. Some prefer a close friend or a professional. There’s no single right answer, but there is a wrong answer: someone you feel obligated to name rather than someone you genuinely trust.
Always Name a Backup
Your first choice may be unavailable, unwilling, or unable to serve when the time comes. Naming an alternate ensures your family doesn’t end up scrambling — or back in court — if your primary agent can’t step in.
It’s Not a Forever Decision
Powers of attorney can be updated, revised, or revoked at any time as long as you’re mentally capable of doing so. If your circumstances change, your documents can change with them. The most important step is having something in place to begin with.
If you’d like to talk through whether you have the right documents for your situation — or whether the documents you signed years ago still make sense — our office is glad to help.